I first met Rachael at a bowling alley. She is a support worker for people with disabilities and she was there with a client. At the time, I was looking for someone to work with my son and Rachael was highly recommended. Acquaintances told me she was a safe driver, filled out paperwork on time and was very engaged with her clients. She sounded perfect, so I walked over to meet her. I waited while she finished assisting a young man with his bowling shoes before I stuck out my hand to introduce myself. She extended her hand towards me and that’s when I noticed that she has no fingers. Yes, you read that correctly—the girl who drove to the bowling alley, helped her client with his fine motor tasks and filled out service logs…Has. No. Fingers.
What is Epidermolysis Bullosa (EB)?
Rachael was born with a rare genetic skin disorder called Epidermolysis Bullosa or EB. Her condition is caused by a lack of protein between the top and bottom layers of her skin. Without this vital protein, the two layers are not anchored, so they move independently from one another and any action that creates friction between the layers (like rubbing or pressure) will create blisters and painful sores on her body.
What are Her Symptoms?
- chronic pain
- fingers and toes are fused together
- wounds that refuse to heal
- narrowing of the esophagus
How Rare Is EB?
Of the approximately 4 million babies born in the US each year, only 80 of them will have EB. To say that the condition is rare is an understatement.
Rarer still, is my friend Rachael.
Despite her disability, she is an independent, smart and vibrant young woman. In 2012, Rachael graduated from the University of Michigan with a degree in Children & Family Services. Besides her work with the developmentally disabled, she is also responsible for the social media profile of the FATWHEELS brand of adaptive training wheels. If you follow us on Facebook or Instagram and have ever laughed at a meme or enjoyed a post you can thank Rachael for that.
And she is always up for anything. This spring Rachael will be testing out our newest kit, the Small FATWHEELS HD. Most individuals with EB don’t learn to ride a bicycle due to fear of falling and injuring their skin. FATWHEELS adaptive training wheels provide a solution to that problem. Rachael’s philosophy is “don’t think about it, just do it” because trying new things and staying active helps her avoid a depressing cycle of thinking about what she can’t do instead of focusing on what she can do.
Laughter is the Best Medicine
At times I forget that she has a disability. It is not uncommon for me to ask her to grab something forgetting that it might be a struggle for her. And since we both share the same dark sense of humor, we also laugh about her disability. Recently, Rachael and I were out with my son and some of his friends at, you guessed it, another bowling alley. Shortly after we got there, I offered to buy everyone a round of hot chocolates. As I finished placing the order, I turned and saw Rachael walking toward me. Without thinking, I blurted out “Oh great, the one with no fingers is here to help carry the hot drinks!” The woman behind the counter stared at me in horror, but the two of us just giggled.
Rachael says she actually likes it when I forget that she has EB or when I joke with her about her disability. It makes her remember that although EB often confines her, it never defines her.
It has been 4 years since I first met Rachael and I am thankful for the work that she does with my son and with the FATWHEELS brand. I am also proud to call her my friend, so I am taking her out to celebrate our friendship. Let’s see…lunch? Movie? No. Wait, I know. Back to the bowling alley! Nah, that won’t work. The lady at the snack counter won’t let me go there anymore….
Until next time,
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