Featured post

“Peach” Therapy


My son Geordi, (Geo), was born with an intellectual disability as well as a speech disorder.

Like many of you, I have spent hours upon hours in waiting rooms at doctor’s offices and therapy clinics. In a frantic effort to “fix” my son, I dragged him to every therapy I could find (and AFFORD!). Continue reading

Yearbooks Get Me Every Time

Does anyone else cry when they look through yearbooks?

I was sitting in my living room this morning crying like a baby. My youngest son, Jacob, has given me his 6th grade yearbook to flip through.

Jake: Mom! Are you crying? You are so weird!

Me: Never mind – get me a Kleenex – some day you will understand! Continue reading

The Great Adventure

Twenty-four years ago my oldest son Geordi , (Geo), was born with big blue eyes, dark curly hair and chubby little cheeks that made you want to smother them in kisses. He was also born “fussy” – not wanting to sleep for more than 20 minutes at a time and not feeding well. As time went on, he was also late to sit, crawl, walk and talk. By the age of two, he was diagnosed as, “developmentally delayed” – cause unknown. Continue reading

Disability Life Hacks

My 23- year-old son Geo has a cognitive disability and still has trouble putting his shoes on the right feet.

I always joke that if he could pick the lottery numbers with the same knack that he has for consistently putting his shoes on the wrong feet I would have been a millionaire a long time ago…..

In The Beginning

Over the years I have tried a million things to help him learn this skill.

When he was small I used a Sharpie and wrote an “L” and an “R” on the inside of his shoes and tried my best to teach him his left from his right.

Singing & Dancing

When he went to school “left” and “right” became an IEP item and the staff at school tried a variety of different techniques to help him master the concept.  They gave him seat work that focused on right-hand/left-hand differentiation & taught him songs that were designed to help his brain with crossing the midline.  We performed these songs every night before bedtime in the living room and to this day I can still remember one of them:

“right hand to your left shoulder, left hand to your right, crossover, crossover ev-er-y-day – crossover to build your body and brain!”  

These songs were fun but they didn’t really work. Every morning Geo would still put his shoes on the wrong feet, grab his backpack and happily makes his way to the school bus walking like a duck!

Watch This

As he got older, I bought him a really cool watch to wear on his right wrist.  Then, I fastened a small bead to the laces of his right shoe and told him that the shoe with the bead on it always goes on the “same side” as his watch.  This worked for a while until he decided that he didn’t like the “feeling” of his watch anymore and he wouldn’t wear it.   At this point, the whole system broke down…..

Pinterest Saves The Day!

Eventually, I resigned myself to the fact that he just wasn’t going to learn his right from his left and I just kept reminding him when his shoes were on the wrong feet.

Then, the other day at the bowling alley, Geo was struggling with his shoes and a friend made a suggestion;  she said she saw on Pinterest that some smart mama had gotten a round sticker, cut it in half and put one-half inside the left shoe and one-half inside the right.  Then, all her daughter had to do, was line up her shoes before she put them on and make sure that they showed a whole circle – BRILLIANT!

I just LOVE these little LIFE HACKS.  Sometimes the simplest, inexpensive ideas have the biggest impact.  I have started a DISABILITY LIFE HACK board on our FATWHEELS Pinterest site.  Here is the link: https://www.pinterest.com/fatwheels/

Connect With Us

Also, please SHARE your struggles & ideas here in the comment section. Let’s get the conversation going –  you never know when you may find a solution for a problem that you are trying to solve or have an idea that will help someone else.

Which Adaptive Cycling Product Is Right For Your Child?

How Am I Going To Help My Child Ride A Bike?

There’s no doubt about it – some children with disabilities need an adaptive bike.  These kids have significant medical challenges and cannot hold their trunk upright or pedal due to their disability.  Continue reading

“I Knew”

Starting To Wonder

As a first time Mom, I took my 18-month-old son into the doctor’s office and said;  “why isn’t he starting to say words like the other kids in his play group?”  The doctor replied;  “Oh I wouldn’t worried about it he will talk when he is good & ready.” Continue reading